Harsh Words

Words have been the cause of all the wars in the world. Words must be sweet or else they should not be spoken. You can become one with someone again even after you have fought with that person, if you use sweet words to relax him/her.Words are intangible but have a power to ruin someone deeply. They don't hit physically but can demolish the main structure of feelings. Now-a-days we are seeing how much people have become mean and selfish.

Wealth is everything for us, who does care of relations are modesty? We often speak harsh words to someone who completely gets hurt. However it is the century of science and era of modernism but the feelings of heart always be same. ''Where is Peace?" Social Media has an adverse effect on our lives. We have gone far away from relatives due to the fast and became upset by it so in the result we use harsh words. No family gathering, those dozen cups of tea and the peanuts which we used to eat together and share problems with each others. We aren't modern; we are feeling-less, directionless and senseless.

We do not weight our words while saying it. We are so mean that even we can't look down to know the miser conditions of poor. Beggars on Signals bear harsh words from those who sit in luxury cars. Why don't they luxurious people think about the real King who is ALLAH? It's the distribution of ALLAH Almighty; we aren't too good to deserve these blessings.

Have a look on your words while saying to others and know the harshness which can demolish the others. If your words can hurt to second person then these words can hurt you too if spoken by others. Islam teaches us good behavior  and Muhammad P.B.U.H used to preach about good behavior. A good behavior person is nearer to ALLAH and it's our daily to follow it.

We should learn to choose our words carefully, as we can hurt, and mislead others. Words can't be taken back, once you give them away. Harsh words are like bullets: no matter what, they can still leave a painful injury. And sometimes, a sorry is not enough to heal the wounds you leave. Talk deeply, yes many introverts find chitchat, which requires jumping quickly from subject to subject, over stimulating. They seek out deep, serious conversations in which they can focus on a single topic of mutual interest. Follow their lead. A study by University of Arizona psychologist Mathias found that the happiest people have twice as many substantive conversations as the unhappiest and participate in far less small talk. Some people just don't know how their harsh words and negative comments could have killed or hurt someone badly.

Words have power so utilize them in positive way as tear up someone isn't bravery but our softness and good behavior can make the people soft and consequently you will get many good friends and supporting shoulders that will be helpful for you in your entire life. Try to be good to everybody. Read more to stay stress free and humble. Science tells us that social connections make us happier and healthier, and science is right. But there are different kinds of social connection. Reading, for instance, can be a deeply social act, putting you inside other people's minds. The introverted writer Marcel Proust called reading "that fruitful miracle of a communication in the midst of solitude.'' And studies suggest that reading makes people more empathetic and improves social skills by helping us better understand our fellow humans. Some people tell their elders that they have no sense. How can one say such a thing? Who are they to assess commonsense in others? Such words will inevitably creative conflicts.

You should not say anything that would hurt others because you will be held liable for it. People who understand this will not take on such a liability; instead they will always say the right thing, whereas those who lack this understanding speak recklessly, taking on the liability. So be careful while talking to others and remember once said cannot be taken back.