Few relations on earth never die! Life of a human is a tumult of relationships. Most of our life span is spent enmeshed in the web or relationships. Some of the relationships are weak and survive not for too long. These ephemeral relationships are lessons in life teaching us values of compromise over ego, sincerity without mistrust and trust without doubt. These ethereal relations rely on how better one avoids misunderstandings. Even little misunderstandings can cause these relations to break never to form again. Apart from these ephemeral relations, there are relations whose value in life never ends. They will last only when eternity approaches.
These relations provide so much in life that despite miles of distances and major disputes, the bonds never break and a part of these relations forever remains encored in hearts. Their essence diffuses through every dark vacancy in life filling it with the warmth of their brightness and spreading waves of ecstasy as smiles across faces and joys in the hearts. These relationships may be between humans or between material things or abstract things. These relations include the relation between parent and child, teacher and student national identity and individual, reader and books and human and nature. We owe our entire life or at least a part of our lives to these relations that can never be segregated.
When a child is born, parents nurture him until he is capable of living for himself. From infancy to adolescence parents, sacrificing their own needs, fulfill the demands of their children. Even when the children are big enough and capable to live on their own, the blessings and prayers of parents are there always to help them through difficulties in life. No worldly power can break this bond of child with parents. There is an essential part of one's character that lies in the parental blessings. Stronger than the iron chains and reliable than concrete walls, the parent child relationship is the first and everlasting relationship man beholds in life. As the human grows and moves towards maturity, the circle of relationships broadens and numerous people enter this circle and leave their impacts on our minds forever.
Their teachings remains the beacon of light and guidance through different phases in life. When difficulties approach and we are left in the midst of nowhere and troubles surround us from every possible dimension their guiding principles that we learn in our student life help us out of these troubles making us believe that without the teaching of these teachers we would have been left entangled in problems with no solutions. These guiding principles forever remain in our minds giving a feeling of their presence somewhere within us in every span of life.
With all these relations existing between the same species there are relation that yet exist among humans and abstracts. These things physically do not exist yet the relationships are strong. Such are the relationships of national identity and individuals, readers and books and human and nature. A person is identified in world by his nation. Where everyone is born the identity of that place remains with one forever and where ever he goes. In the present era when the world has globalize and deciphered into a small village, the inter movement of eastern and western people has increased. The trend is acute amongst eastern countries where living and earning in the west is considered honorary and eccentric. However wherever one dwells, earns and gains nationality or colored cards, the actual identity never fades infect amid the oodles of foreigners, immigrants are identified more by their true identity. This is the relation that never ends. One always remains attached to the roots. The roots may be spread miles afar but after all there is a junction where one meets the roots.
A human in his life span dwells on land uses its resources and nurture on the resources provided but the mother Earth. We essentially breathe in air, drink water, dwell on land, consume mineral resources and take a lot more from the nature to survive. In fact the nature's provision of blessings to us never ends. We are utterly dependent on the nature to survive. Where ever we may go to whatever technological progress we may make, it is the natural resources that help us devising means to progress and develop. An one sided cycle of provision has emerged with the passage of time in which the nature continues to strengthen its relation with man and man's dependence on it increases. Hence the relation of man with the nature never weakens yet with the man's dire need of progress by consumption of natural resources; the relation is going towards communalism where the nature is being destroyed. Knowledge is the best example of abstract relation. When on reads a book, the knowledge of the book enlightens one's vision giving a different dimension to think perceive and apply.
This knowledge provided by books, papers and magazines which never leaves our mind and help us in different ways throughout the life. Whenever we apply our knowledge gained from reading, we owe our victory to the books and papers we read. We forward this knowledge to others, become the teachers and the relationship of a teacher and student is established. The cycle thus goes on strengthening relationships never to end until eternity approaches.
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